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I Think My Child May Have Autism — Where Do I Start in NJ?
Noticing something and not knowing whether to act is a hard place to be. This guide does not diagnose and cannot tell you whether your child has autism. It explains how families usually get their questions answered.
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Quick answer
Write down what you're noticing, raise it with your child's doctor, and ask what evaluation options exist for a child your child's age. Requests are usually stronger in writing.
Step-by-step
- Write specific examples with dates.
- Bring your notes to your child's doctor.
- Ask about developmental screening.
- Ask what a full evaluation would involve and who performs it.
- Put any evaluation request in writing and keep a copy.
What you'll need
- A folder for reports, letters and evaluations
- A running list of who you contacted and when
- Your insurance card and plan information
- Notes about what you have already been told
New Jersey specific information
Information pending verification. We publish New Jersey program details only after checking them against official sources. Nothing here should be treated as confirmed program information.
Questions to ask
- What did you notice during today's visit?
- What kind of evaluation would you recommend, and why?
- How do I request an evaluation in writing?
- How long does this usually take?
- What should I watch for in the meantime?
Common mistakes and confusion
- Screening and evaluation are not the same thing.
- Waiting to see is a choice with trade-offs; ask what your doctor recommends.
- Different evaluation routes exist depending on age and setting.
Helpful resources
Official sources pending verification. We publish New Jersey program details only after checking them against official sources. Nothing here should be treated as confirmed program information.
Related guides
What should I do next?
- Start the Start Here pathway for developmental concerns.
- Search this site for the word you were told at the appointment.
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This guide is for educational purposes and does not replace medical, legal, educational, or insurance advice. Programs, eligibility requirements, provider availability, and insurance coverage can change. Always verify information directly with the appropriate provider, school district, insurance company, or government agency.