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I need respite or support at home

Caring for a child with significant support needs can be demanding. This pathway explains where NJ families can look for respite and in-home support.

Information reviewed: August 28, 2026

Quick answer

Respite means temporary relief for a primary caregiver.

For families of eligible children with intellectual or developmental disabilities, respite may be available through New Jersey’s Children’s System of Care Family Support Services.

Step 1 — Check DD eligibility

For children under 18, developmental disability eligibility is handled through PerformCare.

If your child has not yet been determined eligible, start by learning about the DD eligibility process.

Step 2 — Understand that DD eligibility and Family Support Services are separate steps

A child being determined eligible for developmental disability services does not automatically enroll the family in respite.

PerformCare states that families seeking Family Support Services must complete a separate Family Support Services application, and services are based on eligibility, appropriateness, need, and availability.

Step 3 — Contact PerformCare

PerformCare: 1-877-652-7624. Available 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

Ask about Family Support Services (FSS) and respite.

Other Family Support Services

Depending on eligibility, need and availability, CSOC Family Support Services may include supports beyond respite.

Read the Vicabell guide to DD vs. DDD and how to apply

Vicabell provides educational resource information and is not affiliated with the State of New Jersey, PerformCare, or the Children’s System of Care. Program requirements, contact information, and services can change. Always confirm current information with the official agency.